How to Date a Stripper
Sunday, November 19th, 2006Many men fantasize about dating a stripper (OK, an exotic dancer), because they have hot bodies, however most of them are drama queens.
First, find a strip-club where you feel comfortable. Go for the gentlemen club-type places or topless bars where you can find well-educated dancers, in some cases college students or college graduates. These girls are far more interesting and open to socialize.
Become a familiar face at the club by befriending first the bartenders,security,manager etc.Show up early. Go to the club right after they open, usually in the first hour after they open, the place is dead and the strippers are just hanging around,chilling, practicing pole-tricks and talking to each other. This is the optimal moment to try to approach them without feeling under pressure - they are still not in their money-making mode.
Be nice. Lots of these girls are used to get the worst treatment from men who regard them as a piece of meat. Listen to her, give her a chance to open up and tell you her story, show true interest in her activities outside the strip-club.
Don’t focus your attention on her body.Don’t ask her about their tattoos. Ask her about books, movies,family, life and she will find you a lot more interesting to talk than most of her customers. Don’t ask her for her phone number or real name right away. Let her give it to you when it’s the right time. Give her yours instead.Instead of complimenting her body parts, tell her she looks good on her new outfit or she is really improving a lot on the pole-tricks, stuff like that.
Never get a lap-dance from the girl you are pursuing. Nor from any of her friends. If you do so she will consider you a “regular” - one of those pathetic lonely geeks who fall in love with a stripper and give them regularly lots of money. She will never date you when that business relationship with her is established. Alternatively, when the club gets too busy and all the girls start getting lap-dances, just leave, and let her know that you don’t want to interfere in her job, wish her good luck and tell her you’ll come to see her some other day.
When you finally get to go out on a date with her, don’t try to impress her with expensive stuff. She is a stripper and she is used to guys showing interest to her through money. Anyway, she probably makes more money than you. Find some common intellectual interest instead. Give her a present that you made yourself for her.
Don’t think that because she is a stripper she is promiscuous and ready to go to bed with you right away. On the contrary, some of this women usually take a long time to get to know you. They don’t generally trust men because they are exposed every day to the worst side of men. Be patient and show her that you are different.
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