Seduction Tip:How to Play Hard to Get
Friday, November 24th, 2006Both men and women like good challenges and the thrills of “the chase”. Here are some useful tips:
1. Do not make yourself too available. He or she needs to feel he/she has to make an effort to see you. When you make plans, always say that you have a lot of work to do.Say that you are not sure you will be able to find free time in your “busy schedule” - do this even if you are unemployed.
2. At some situations - don’t give him/her any extra attention.For example, if you’re hanging around a bunch of people, spread your attention all around and ignore him/her. People like to feel like they have to win you over. All people want things they cannot have, and if your man/woman knows they can have you very easily or right away, he/she may lose interest.
3. Don’t show too much interest in him/her. Try to control your body language. Showing too much interest eliminates the challenge.
4. Men and women both like competition. So hang around with other men or women, go on dates, and flirt with other people.
5. When you’re talking to someone sit or walk a foot or two away from them. Lean back and relax when you are in a conversation. Don’t lean forward. Act casual.
6. Be indifferent of the outcome (or pretend to be indifferent). Make him/her never forget there are thousands of other males and females out there. If he/she does not succeed with you - it won’t be the end of the world for you.
